Fundamentally Different

Chatted it up today with a friend going through the post-divorce dating roller coaster.

I am not sure that I was much help. I kept circling back to the age old "when you know, you know." The most annoying phrase to those who aren't sure that they know. Doubted by all...all BUT the ones who know. Once you've been there, it makes perfect sense. When you are the one confused and grasping at straws...it seems like complete horseshit. It can't be that simple. When you know, you know? Really?

Yep. I think of all the countless hours, weeks, months, years that I spent trying to figure out what I would never ever know...simply because it wasn't right. Wasted Time. Lessons learned I suppose. But I could've just waited until I knew.

But how do you know when you know? If you are asking then you don't. I couldn't come up with a single thing more profound than I knew. That with Chad it was fundamentally different. Profound yet simple. I knew.